DANGEROUS MISTAKES MANY COUPLES MAKE. The mistake many Christian couples do in the bedroom is to assume that their bodies belong to them alone. But according to the Bible, your body as a Christian married person has two other ownership. You and your spouse. God said, “The two will become one flesh.” This is a declaration from God that brings a fundamental change of spiritual and physical status. Where two were, there is now one. 1 Corinthians 7:5 says, "Don’t defraud one another. Do not cheat each other by coming up with excuses for saying “no” to sex when your spouse needs it. The Bible teaches that a husband and a wift are on absolutely equal on matters sex. The wife has all rights to her husband’s body, the same way he also has all rights on her wife's body. DANGEROUS MISTAKES OF WITHHOLDING SEX FROM YOUR SPOUSE A couple may have reasons, which may be legitimate. But apart from those reasons, withholding sex from your spouse is not defensible behavior for a Christian. ...